calendar_todayFebruary 3schedule5 min readauto_awesomeDisciplinebookmarkThe Discipline of Desire

"No one sets a mark in order to miss it."

schedule5 min readEpictetus

In the 1920s, a German philosopher named Eugen Herrigel went to Japan to study Zen. He decided to learn archery under a master named Awa Kenzo.

Herrigel was a logical Westerner. He thought archery was a matter of mechanics: aim + tension + release = bullseye. He tried very hard. He focused intensely on the target. He wanted desperately to hit the center to prove he was a good student.

He missed. Again and again. Master Kenzo told him the problem wasn't his technique. The problem was his desire. "The right art," Kenzo said, "is purposeless, aimless! The more obstinately you try to learn how to shoot the arrow for the sake of hitting the target, the less you will succeed."

Herrigel was baffled. How can you hit a target if you don't aim at it? Kenzo explained that by fixating on the "hit" (a future outcome), Herrigel was creating tension in his body. His desire to succeed was actually a form of anxiety. It made his release jerky and his mind cluttered.

The state the Master demanded was Mushin ("no mind"). It's a state where the archer, the bow, and the target are one. The archer doesn't think "I must hit." The archer simply breathes and lets the arrow fall from the string like a ripe fruit falls from a tree.

One day, after years of frustration, Herrigel finally stopped caring if he hit the target. He just breathed and released. The arrow flew straight into the center. Kenzo nodded and said, "Just then," he said, "It shot!"

Epictetus uses the metaphor of the target to explain human error. Just as every archer wants to hit the bullseye, every human wants to be happy and do the right thing.

So why do we do evil? Why do we fail? Because, like the novice archer, our desire distorts our aim. We think the "bullseye" is money, or status, or revenge. We aim at the wrong things. Or, we aim at the right things but with so much desperate attachment that our hands shake and we miss.

The Stoic, like the Zen archer, focuses on the form, not the score. You set the mark. You draw the bow with perfect discipline. And then you let go.

Errors & Corrections

  • Don't grip the bow too tight. This is the physical manifestation of attachment. When you want something too much (a promotion, a relationship), you squeeze the life out of it. Relax your grip. The arrow flies truer when the hand is loose.
  • Don't mistake the score for the shot. You can make a terrible shot and get lucky (hit the center). You can make a perfect shot and get unlucky (wind blows it). The only thing up to you is making the shot. If you judge yourself by the score, you'll be a slave to luck.
  • Don't demonize the one who misses. Epictetus reminds us that the person who hurts you didn't want to be evil. They were aiming at "happiness" but had bad vision. They missed the mark. Pity the bad marksman instead of hating them.

Applications to Modern Life

Work

You have a sales quota. If you walk into a meeting thinking, "I need this sale," the client smells your desperation. You talk too fast. You push too hard. You miss. If you walk in thinking, "I want to help this person solve a problem," you're relaxed, you listen, and you connect. Paradoxically, the less you "need" the sale, the more likely you are to get it.

Leadership

A micromanaging boss is like an archer who tries to steer the arrow after it has left the string. They hover and tweak. They drive the team crazy. Once you have trained the team (drawn the bow), you must let them go. Trust the physics of your preparation.

Athleticism & Sport

This is the "Zone." When an athlete is in the Zone, they aren't thinking about the championship ring. They aren't thinking about the contract. They're entirely in the present motion. The moment they think, "If I make this, we win," they tense up and miss. The desire for the trophy is the enemy of the performance.

Politics

Politicians often aim for "winning" rather than "governance." They pass laws just to score points against the other side. They miss the real target, which is the well-being of the state. As a voter, look for the candidate who is focused on the craft of governing, not the theater of campaigning.

Social Media

We craft posts to "hit" the algorithm. We want the viral bullseye. This makes our content fake and desperate. We're aiming for metrics, not connection. Stop trying to go viral. Just say something true.

Interpersonal Relationships

Dating is the ultimate archery test. If you go on a date desperate to find "The One," you are terrifying. You are interviewing them for a role. If you go with Mushin just to enjoy a conversation with another human being, you're attractive. The lack of pressure allows love to happen.

Maxims

  • The arrow knows the way; let it go.
  • Desire makes the hand shake.
  • Focus on the form, not the fame.

In-depth Concepts

Hamartia (Missing the Mark)

This is the ancient Greek word for "sin" or "error," but it comes from archery. It literally means to miss the target. In Stoicism, sin isn't a stain on the soul, but a mistake in judgment. You aimed at "Pleasure" thinking it was "Good." You missed.

Mushin (No-Mind)

While a Zen concept, it parallels the Stoic idea of Apatheia (freedom from passion). It isn't an empty mind, but a mind uncluttered by the noise of ego and desire. It's the state of pure, uninhibited action.