"In your actions, don't be sluggish...In your imagination, don't be wandering...In your soul, don't be passive or aggressive...And let your life not be just business."
On December 24, 1914, the "business" of the world was war. World War I had been raging for five months. Millions of men were dug into freezing trenches in Flanders, tasked with the industrial slaughter of the enemy. The "business" required them to be aggressive, dehumanized killing machines.
But on Christmas Eve, something broke the pattern. German soldiers started lighting candles and singing "Stille Nacht" (Silent Night). The British soldiers heard it and sang back. Slowly, tentatively, men began to climb out of the trenches. They didn't shoot. They met in No Man's Land. They shook hands. They exchanged cigarettes and buttons. They showed each other photos of their families. They played soccer.
For a few precious hours, they stopped being "just business". They remembered they were human beings. They rejected the "aggressiveness" of their orders and the "wandering imagination" of propaganda that painted the other side as monsters. They centered their souls.
The generals were furious. They ordered the shelling to resume immediately. They knew that if the men connected on a human level, the war machine would break. But the soldiers had proved a point: even in hell, the human spirit can choose order and connection over chaos and violence.
Marcus Aurelius offers us a triad of disciplines for a sane life, and a final warning.
- Action (Don't be sluggish): When you have a duty, do it. Don't procrastinate.
- Imagination (Don't be wandering): Keep your mind on reality. Don't get lost in anxiety ("what if") or fantasy ("if only").
- Soul (Don't be passive or aggressive): Find the middle path of equanimity. Don't check out of life (passive), but don't attack it (aggressive).
And finally: "Let your life not be just business."
Marcus was an Emperor. He worked 14-hour days. He knew the danger of becoming a bureaucrat of one's own life. A person who is so busy "doing" that they forget "being". If your entire existence is a to-do list, you are not a human, you are a robot.
Errors & Corrections
- Don't confuse "not sluggish" with "rushing". "Not sluggish" means deliberate, timely execution. Rushing is chaotic. Move with smooth, consistent speed.
- Don't confuse "not wandering" with "no creativity". Marcus means don't let your mind be hijacked by anxieties or delusions. Keep your perception gripped to the truth.
- Don't operate only in "business mode". Efficiency is a tool, not a lifestyle. If you treat your family or your own soul like a business project, you wither.
Applications to Modern Life
Work"Let your life not be just business." This is the antidote to hustle culture. If you answer emails at Christmas dinner, you have violated this law. You have allowed the tool of work to conquer the master. Set boundaries. Work hard when you work (don't be sluggish), but stop completely when you stop.
LeadershipA leader whose soul is aggressive creates a toxic culture of fear. A leader whose soul is passive creates a culture of neglect. The Stoic leader walks the line: firm but fair, engaged but calm. They model the emotional regulation they want to see in the team.
Social MediaSocial media is designed to make your imagination wander. It pulls you into other people's lives, fake scenarios, and outrage loops. It fragments your focus. To apply this law, you must curate your feed to stop the wandering. Use the tool for a specific purpose, then close it.
Interpersonal RelationshipsWhen you are with a loved one, are you sluggish in your affection? Do you wait for them to make the first move? Be active. But also, don't be aggressive in your demands. Love requires the balance of an active heart and a peaceful soul.
Athleticism & SportIn sports, if your imagination wanders to the trophy or the fear of losing, you will choke. You must keep your mind on the immediate task. If your body is sluggish, you lose. If you are too aggressive (tense), you break form. The elite athlete is the perfect embodiment of this triad: focused mind, active body, balanced emotion.
PoliticsPolitical discourse is often trapped in "wandering imagination" (conspiracy theories) and "aggressive soul" (hatred). A Stoic citizen avoids these traps. They look at facts (no wandering) and engage in civil debate (no aggression). They refuse to let politics become their entire identity ("just business").
Maxims
- Do not drift; steer.
- Be neither a doormat nor a tyrant.
- You are more than your job.
In-depth Concepts
The Three Disciplines (Topoi)
Scholar Pierre Hadot identified these three commands as the core structure of the Meditations, corresponding to the three branches of Stoic philosophy:
- Discipline of Assent (Logic): Controlling the imagination/perception (Don't be wandering).
- Discipline of Desire (Physics): Accepting what happens/regulating the soul (Don't be passive or aggressive).
- Discipline of Action (Ethics): acting with justice (Don't be sluggish).
Ascholia (Busyness/Occupied-ness)
Marcus uses the word ascholia (lack of leisure) to describe the state of being "just business". He warns that excessive ascholia creates a "shriveled soul". We need schole (leisure/reflection) to remain human. This is the root of the word "school": a place of leisure for learning, not just a factory for workers.
Meditations — Section 8.51