calendar_todayJanuary 18schedule5 min readauto_awesomeDisciplinebookmarkThe Dichotomy of Control

"Remember that this which pulls the strings is the thing which is hidden within..."

schedule5 min readMarcus Aurelius

In May 1945, Private Desmond Doss climbed a sheer cliff face called the Maeda Escarpment on the island of Okinawa. He was walking into one of the bloodiest battles of World War II. Japanese machine-gun nests covered the ridge. Artillery fire was constant. Every other man in his company carried a rifle, a bayonet, and grenades. Doss carried nothing but a Bible and a medical kit.

Doss was a Seventh-day Adventist who refused to touch a gun. The Army had tried to kick him out. His fellow soldiers had called him a coward and abused him. They believed that without a weapon, he was a liability. They thought the fear of death would make him useless.

But when the attack failed and the Americans retreated down the cliff, Doss stayed up top. Alone in the "hell" of the ridge, surrounded by enemy soldiers, Doss ran into the fire again and again. He dragged wounded men to the edge of the cliff and lowered them down on a rope one by one. He prayed a simple loop: "Lord, please help me get one more."

He saved 75 men that night.

Marcus Aurelius uses the metaphor of a puppet to describe the human condition. The body is the puppet. It's jerked around by external forces. Hunger pulls a string. Fear pulls a string. Pain pulls a string. Most people just dance to whatever string is pulled hardest.

Doss proved that the thing "hidden within", his conviction and his faith, was stronger than the strings of the world. The external situation pulled the string for "Run Away." Doss's internal master pulled the string for "Stay."

He showed that the weaponless man is actually the most powerful man on the battlefield if he controls his own strings. The other soldiers were reacting to the fear of death. Doss was acting on the love of his brothers. He was the only one up there who wasn't a puppet.

Errors & Corrections

  • Don't blame the strings. We often say, "I couldn't help it," or, "He pushed my buttons." This is an admission that you're a puppet. You can always help it. You can always choose which string to follow.
  • Don't cut the connection. When we get drunk, high, or blindly enraged, we're cutting the connection between the mind (the master) and the body (the puppet). We leave the puppet in a heap on the floor. Discipline is maintaining the tension on the strings.
  • Don't let strangers hold the handle. If you let a politician, an influencer, or a boss dictate your emotions, you've handed them the control bar. They twitch their finger, and you dance. Take the handle back.

Applications to Modern Life

Work

You're pressured to fudge the numbers or lie to a client to save the quarter. The "string" of greed or fear of being fired is pulling hard. If you yield, you're a puppet of the company. If you refuse because it violates your code, you're a free agent. Your career might take a hit, but what's "hidden within" remains uncorrupted.

Leadership

A weak leader is a puppet of the latest management trend or the loudest shareholder. They jerk back and forth, confusing the team. A Stoic leader has an internal compass. They move steadily because they're pulling their own strings based on long-term vision, not short-term pressure.

Athleticism & Sport

The crowd screams. The opponent trash-talks. The referee has a bad call. These are all attempts to pull your strings. The undisciplined athlete reacts and gets a technical foul. The disciplined athlete feels the tug but refuses to move. They stay in their stance. They execute the play.

Politics

Partisanship is puppetry. The party leader says, "Be angry at this," and the base gets angry. The party leader says, "Support this," and the base supports it. A free citizen cuts these strings. They examine issues one by one. They might agree with the Left on one issue Monday and the Right on another issue on Tuesday because they're following their own reason, not the party line.

Social Media

The algorithm is the ultimate puppet master. It knows exactly which string to pull to keep you scrolling. It shows you rage-bait to pull the "anger" string. It shows you models to pull the "envy" string. To be a Stoic online is to recognize the tug and refuse to click. You close the app. You break the spell.

Interpersonal Relationships

Manipulative people are experts at finding your strings. They know that if they sigh loudly, you'll feel guilty and do what they want. If you want a healthy relationship, you must stop dancing. When they sigh, ask "What's wrong?" calmly. Don't react to the trigger. React to the words.

Maxims

  • The body dances; the mind leads.
  • Cut the strings of the world.
  • I'm not a puppet.

In-depth Concepts

Neurospastoun (Puppet/Marionette)

Marcus uses this word to evoke a specific image of a wooden doll with jointed limbs moved by strings. It emphasizes the passivity of the body. The body has no will of its own. It just goes where the impulses take it.

Hegemonikon (The Ruling Faculty)

This is what's "hidden within." It's the commander. It's the part of the soul that reasons, decides, and initiates action. The goal of Stoicism is to ensure the Hegemonikon is always the one pulling the strings, rather than the passions or external events.